Wednesday, June 28, 2006

HARAPAN

ambil dari blog yg aku selalu layari..

HARAPAN

Doaku agar kaukan selalu bahagia,
Agar kau temui insan tulus menyayangimu,
Lepaskanlah diriku kerna keredhaanmu,
Bukan kerna dendam jua bukan kerna kau terpaksa,
Ku tinggalkan memori bersamamu,
Kuundur diri bersama harapan.
Chorus :
Tidak kesampaian cinta kita,
Kubawa harapan kupendam rahsia,
Ku dikejauhan mendoakan,
Agar kau bahgia tiada lagi duka.
Daku rela mengundur diri,
Ku pasti dikaukan fahami ...

Tiada penyesalan kasihku korbankan
Andai telah tertulis kuterima ini bukannya kupinta,
Oh pergilah dikau diiringi keikhlasanku,
Cuma pengalaman mengisi kekosongan mimpiku
Judul : Harapan
Artis : Fazli Zainal
Penerbit : Azlan Abu Hassan
Komposer & Lirik : Hazami
Source : http://www.myspace.com/fazlizainal

Semalam terdengar lagu ni di radio Era semasa tengah memandu balik dari ofis (sambil berangan hahaha) Lagu ni untuk seorang kawan. Lirik dia pun mantap ada cerita di dalamnya.

Manusia hanya punya harapan bila segala mimpi tak lagi sudi menghampiri. Kenyataan lebih memberi kelegaan andai kita tahu segalanya sudah ditentukan begitu. Lebih baik melepaskannya pergi dari terus memberi harapan palsu. Sesiapa pun kita, takdir penentu segalanya.
Seperti yang telah kukhabarkan kali yang ke sejuta ... "Bukankah hidup ini akhirnya harus bahagia?".
Aku cuba menyayangi dalam seribu harapan palsumu moga engkau memahami segalanya adalah satu kesilapan. Kesilapan kerana cuba menyayangimu.

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

Terasing Dalam Sepi

Tiba tiba aku kembali meminati lagu lagu dari kumpulan Slam..

Slam
Terasing dalam Sepi

Oh... kekasih apakah erti
Seandainya cinta tiada punca dan arah
Oh... kekasih dalam termanggu
Aku yang terasing menanti pasti
Tak mampu lagi ku mengutip sisa
Di halaman orang
Sedangkan kau hanya tersenyum
Dalam tangis ku... oohh
Dimanakah keikhlasan mu
Saat ku sengsara engkau hanya ketawa
Setidaknya bimbinglah daku
Membina teduhan yang seindah mu
Puas ku memikirkan apa dosa ku
Sering disisih...
Seolah ku tak berharga lagi
Untuk berkasih... ohhh

( korus )
Makin ku diam
Makin lantang kau sebarkan
Hinanya diriku di sisi mu
Tidakkah engkau menyesal
Kecurangan mu itu menguris hati ku
Setelah kau memiliki mahligai mu
Air mata ku tak bererti lagi
Kasih kau mengertilah
Aku jua inginkan ketenangan
Di serata jiwa ku

( ulang korus )
Oh... kekasih dalam termanggu
Aku yang terasing menanti pasti... ohh

aku semakin mula merindui dirinya...ct

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

Islam’s stance on oral sex

Bahan bacaan ni aku ambil dr sebuah blog..suhaimy.org

Respected scholars of Islam, As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatu Allah wa Barakatuh. What is the Islamic stance on oral sex between the husband and his wife? Jazakum Allah khayran.
AnswerWa`alykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh.
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.
Dear questioner, thank you so much for your concerns about your religion and Allah’s teachings even in what concerns your sexual life with your wife.

As regards your question, it is to be noted, first of all, that all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation. Thus, it is permissible for a husband and a wife to practice cunnilingus and fellatio. Following we’d cite the opinions of some well-known Muslim scholars in this regard:

The eminent Muslim scholar, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi states:
“I was asked about oral sex in America and Europe when I began to travel to these countries in the early 70s. We are not used to be asked these questions in our Muslim countries. Those Western people are accustomed to stripping naked during sexual intercourse. These are communities of nakedness, and from the licentiousness of the woman that she wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life.

So, they are in need of more excitements during copulation. However, men in our Muslim societies see nothing in the Muslim woman that can excite them on the basis of her wearing either Hijab (veil) or Niqab (face cover). But concerning whether being in complete nakedness during practicing copulation is lawful or not, the Prophet of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, is reported to have said, “Guard your private parts except from your wife or your slaves.”
Muslim jurists are of the opinion that it is lawful for the husband to perform cunnilingus on his wife, or a wife to perform the similar act for her husband (fellatio) and there is no wrong in doing so. But if sucking leads to releasing semen, then it is Makruh (blameworthy), but there is no decisive evidence (to forbid it).

These parts are not dirty like anus, but it is ordinarily disgusting to man. But there is no decisive evidence to make it unlawful, especially if the wife agrees with it or achieves orgasm by practicing it. Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: “And who guard their modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that I heir right hands possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond that, such are transgressors.” (Al-Mu’minun: 5-7)”
In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except anal sex, for that is strictly forbidden.

Dr. Ali Jum`ah, professor of the Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar Univ., says further that licking, sucking and kissing spouse’s sexual organs are all allowed, as long as it gives a person sexual gratification that will keep him away from Haram (unlawful) or starring at opposite sex (marriageable). But every Muslim must keep in mind that sexual intercourse is just a lust and passion that must be satisfied in a lawful way; it’s not to be perceived as necessary as foods and drinks, as it’s the case in the Western perverted ideology.

Shedding more light on this, Dr. Sabri `Abdul Ra’ouf, professor of Islamic Comparative Jurisprudence, at Al-Azhar Univ, says that it’s allowed for the married couple to enjoy each other as long as what they do does not run counter to the teachings of Islam or violate the public norms. He also gives support to the view of Sheikh Al-Qaradawi that oral sex or kissing private parts of the spouse is something viewed disgusting to Muslims, but if the aim is just kissing (without having constant indulgence in it) it’s not sinful to do that, but people of high morality normally keep away from that, as not to give in to imitating non-Muslims.”

In conclusion, it has become clear now that oral sex is not prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed Muslims and Muslimahs. That’s, despite that oral sex is not Haram, it is completely disgusting and does not conform to the pure taste and decency of a Muslim personality.

Here, it should be noted that one of the main objectives of Shari`ah is to safeguard the life of people and keep them healthy. Based on this, if it is scientifically proven that oral sex or such practices cause mouth cancer or form a danger on the health of a person who practices it, then it becomes totally prohibited.

Thursday, June 08, 2006

Terbang Melayang

Aku menulis sekali lagi hari ini, seperti semalam. Hari ini aku merasa begitu keseorangan, tiada berteman. Dia tak ada hari ni, Hafizah pun, en othman pun..seronok jugak bila keseorangan begini.

Ketika tulisan ini membentuk aku sedang mendengar lagu dari Ungu..melayang sebab tu aku tajukkan tulisan blogku hari ini sebagai melayang.

Agak menarik la lagu ni sambil mendengar bbrp lagi lagu dari indon dan tidak ketinggalan juga lagu siti..

Wednesday, June 07, 2006

DIA (Wanita yang membunuh cintaku)

Dah lama aku tidak menulis di blog. Hari ini aku terasa ingin menulis sesuatu..

Akhirnya aku mendapat kesedaran bahwa ini adalah takdirnya..
tapi aku akan terus mencuba...kerna aku sudah sedar dimana halanganku itu..


DIA
(Wanita yang membunuh cintaku)

Si jelita itu
Membawa sedulang dusta
Ketika aku terlalu naïf
Menghirup cinta yang kau hidangkan.

Ketika belati itu menusuk ke jantungku
Engkau terus berlalu
Rintihan dan raunganku
Kau biarkan tersekat di celah sepatu
Dan kau terus berlalu.

Entah kenapa,
Setelah sekian waktu
Kau kembali menagih simpati.
Aku melihat kilau belati yang pernah
Menusuk jantungku
Aku melihat sepatumu yang penuh debu
Aku melihat si jelita itu
Yang pernah kucinta sepenuh jiwa

Waktu rupa-rupanya
Lebih adil
Derita dan rintihan ku dulu
Rupanya lebih bahagia
Dan aku tak ingin terus leka
Menghirup segala duka.

Pada si jelita
Kukhabarkan,
Telahku bunuh segala cinta
Yang ada cuma kenangan
Melekat di ruang ingatan.


Azhan A. Kamal
Cyberjaya